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THE
EATHER FAMILY
Peter and
Olive have three children who all attended school in
Baralaba state school, then finished their education in
Rockhampton. The eldest, Ken, joined the farm
partnership with his parents when he left school.
He is currently living in Sydney doing construction
work. Daughter Barbara and her
husband. Lyn, the youngest child joined the
Farm Stay Partnership in 1993.
PETER EATHER’S FAMILY
Peter Eather was born 29 January 1933 in Singleton, NSW.
Peter was the fourth of five children of Grace and Ivo
Eather. The family grew up on a wheat/sheep farm
in an isolated area and Peter attended a one-teacher
school. Ivo was injured in France during WW1, at
the Villers Bretonneeux on the Somme, 100km North of
Paris. As a result, he spent years in hospital, then
finally returned to his family at Bulga where his
brothers were running farms. He married Grace
Pankhurst in 1926 and they reared 5 children on a farm
called Harparary in NSW. Ivo and his brother
Arthur married sisters.
After
leaving school Peter and his brothers joined a
partnership and ran the property. In 1954 the
brothers were looking for more land. They
travelled North 1000km and bought a property 16km from
Myella. Peter and brother Don worked the new farm
in Qld, while brother Dick and Harry continued to run
the wheat/sheep farm in N.S.W.
Eventually
the Eather brothers bought a farm for each other, then
they ended their partnership. The eldest, Dick,
still owns the original farm in NSW and his son now runs
it.
In 1964
Peter married Olive (nee Oram), a farmer’s daughter
from Baralaba. Olive was born 9 August 1943 in the
Baralaba hospital. She was the sixth of eight
children of Digger and Cecilia Oram. Olive worked
on her family’s cattle property 10km from Myella.
OLIVE’S
FAMILY ANCESTORS
Olive’s Great Grand parents Joseph and Elizabeth Oram
married on 14th June 1865 in London and travelled to
Australia on the “Bays Water” three months later.
Joseph worked for his passage as a baker on the ship and
paid for his wife’s ticket. They started a
family in Central Queensland Joseph bought and worked a
butcher shop in Blackwater (2hrs west of Myella).
Joseph’s son Louis had 12 children. Louis and
his son Lewis (Olive’s father) bought a property at
Baralaba for 90 pounds in August 1930. This farm is
still in the family. It was given to Olive’s
brother Bill. Out of the 8 children 7 of them have
been cattle farmers at one stage. Currently 4 of
them are still farmers. Olive is the forth child
on the horse. She had to ride her horse 6.5miles
to school for a few years until there was a school bus.
HOW
THE NAME EATHER BEGAN
The name Eather first appeared in Australia 1797.
A man called Thomas Heather was sent to Australia as a
convict. The name changed from Heather to Eather
gradually. A variety of spelling errors
appeared in the records of baptisms, marriages and death
certificates; but there was a low level of literacy.
Thomas Heather’s name was first printed as Thomas
Eather when he received his first land grant.
Heather was spelt when he applied for his second land
grant and Thomas Either was written on his will.
Soon after 1827 the name was frequently spelt 'Ether' or
'Eather'.
THOMAS
HEATHER, OUR CONVICT ANCESTOR
Our ancestors Robert Heather (1710-1780) and his wife,
Elizabeth were living in Bexley in Kent when their
youngest son Thomas Heather (1764-1827) was born.
Thomas had no formal schooling and went through life
unable to sign his own name. At the age of 23
years Thomas Heather was working as a labourer at
Chislehurst when he was arrested and charged for
robbery. Found guilty, he was sentenced to death,
but this was commuted to a 14yr sentence. After a
year in prison Thomas was moved to the hulks and on 19
January 1790 he sailed from England with the second
fleet on the "Neptune". The ship arrived
at Sydney Cove on 28 June 1790.
The conditions under which the Second Fleet sailed were
different from those of the First Fleet. Of the
520 convicts that embarked the Neptune 31% died.
Merchants were contracted per convict,
the more deaths amongst the convicts en route, meant
more surplus food left for
sale at the ports visited. The following year Elizabeth
Lee (1773-1860), an 18 year old Lancashire lass arrived
on the "Mary Ann". She had worked in
England as either a domestic servant or a shop assistant
and pleaded guilty for stealing from her employer a grey
cloak valued at six pence. Elizabeth was
sentenced to "be sent and transported to some part
beyond the seas for a space of 7 years".
The ship, 'Mary Ann' left England on 16 February 1791
and arrived at Port Jackson 9 July 1791. It was
the fastest voyage out by a convict ship up to that
date, only 9 convicts dying on the way.
Thomas
and Elizabeth Heather married within a few months of her
arrival in the colony and they had 8 children.
Land was granted to Thomas on 1 June 1797. He
still had five years of his sentence to complete, but
Elizabeth had recently completed her sentence.
Thomas was granted a thirty-acre farm named "Eather
Farm" situated at Windsor on the Hawkesbury River
in NSW. The conditions of the grant were: that he
should live on the land for five years; that the land
would be free from all taxes for ten years; and that he
was to make improvements and cultivate the land deemed
fit for naval purposes. They fulfilled these
requirements and, in 1803, they sold the farm for
eighty-nine pounds.
In 1802,
Thomas was granted his ticket-of-leave; then, in 1820,
he sought another grant of land and was granted fifty
acres. Thomas was living in Windsor as a store
keeper during his last years before he died, aged 63
years. Elizabeth passed away in Richmond at the
age of 88 years. All of her children lived to at
least eighty years of age. She left 157 descendants.
PETER'S
MOTHER
Grace
Eather (Nee
Pankhurst)
Grace was
born in Brangxton in the hunter valley to Allen and
Virginia (Nee Russell) on 30 th
September 1899. Allen and Virginia had a small dairy
farm at Mitchells flat some 8 or 10 miles east of
Singleton and about the same distance from Branxton
where Virginia’s parents lived. Grace was the third
daughter , the others were Jean and Eleanor(Nell), as
there were no milking machines in those days all the
milking had to be done by hand , so as soon as they
were old enough the girls had to do their share of
milking, morning and night. Grace related how she as a
primary school girl had to milk her 6 to 8 cows before
school then again in the afternoon. She was
apparently good at handling horses as she related that
her pony had to be put into the shafts of a sulky to
collect an aunt from the rail in Singleton as the
normal horse was lame, grandfather was on tender hook
but when Aunty was told she said there “wouldn’t be
any worry with Gracie’s pony”. The main worry was when
the first motor cars began to appear and the horses
couldn’t face the noisy vehicles.
Later
grandfather moved to William St in
Singleton, a two
story house which has recently been renovated and
looks grand. Grace began piano and elocution classes
in Maitland and had to travel by train, practicing her
elocution silently got her some strange looks from
fellow passengers. She received
her cap and gown in music and enjoyed playing most of
her life, playing for services at Gracemere retirement
home.
Jean
married Arthur Eather and they lived on Meerea, Bulga,
later moving to “Milgarra” Bunnan
and had three boys. Eleanor married Charles
McNiven who eventually lived in Drummoyne. Eleanor and
Charles with his brother Ron began
McNivens Ice
Cream a successful
business which was eventually sold to Peters.
Grace met
Ivo Eather a younger brother of Arthur who had been
severely wounded in France at Villiers Brettoneaux
with his brother Jack They married in 1925 and moved
to Harparary, raising five children, four boys and a
girl, Ivo died in 1952 and Grace lived there till
Harry married in 1961 when she moved to Queensland
first to the property Fairhaven then to Baralaba
before retiring to Gracemere.
Grace was
renowned for her heavy foot when driving and there are
quite a few stories told of her escapades .The family
eventually persuaded her to stop driving the 800 odd
kilometre journey from Baralaba to Baan Baa as she
couldn’t seem to stop and had to do the trip in one
day, she made her last trip when she was 76.
Grace had
to hold the fort many times when we were small when
Ivo had spells in Hospital in Sydney, one cold winter
day we asked if we could go for a swim in the creek
which looked very inviting ,
she said yes so we went for a whole five
seconds.Lucy used to call
her Grey and complained one day coming home from
school she had no grandmother being most disappointed
to find her Grey was her grandmother. She
was a favourite with her
grandchildren and “Gran” became her name to the wider
community eventually passing in her 88th year.
The
other night, by the campfire some guests and I (Lyn)
enjoyed listening to my father (Peter) performing bush
poetry. He
was good, really good and I thought to myself, I bet
his mother would be proud of him.
Peter’s
mother Grace, died in 1988 before Peter began reciting
poetry. Grace
herself had a love of poetry and she holds some
wonderful memories for me. We called her Gran and she
would often perform for friends and family.
During
my childhood she would come to visit every family
member for their birthday.
I remember my 9th birthday I walked
past the toilet and could hear Gran’s voice having a
deep conversation with herself.
Concerned, I ran calling, “Mum, I think
Gran’s going crazy!
She’s talking to herself on the toilet!”
After some investigating my mother reassured me
that Gran was just being Gran.
You see she was worried she may loose her
marbles or forget her poems, so she would practice
whenever she was on the loo!
When
I think of Gran my heart is filled with the warmth of
memories that always bring a smile to my face.
Yep, she was quiet a character and anyone who
knew her seem to have a story about how she touched
their lives. Then
I started wondering, has anyone written down these
stories, has anyone recorded the life of Grace Eather
(Nee Pankhurst).
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